about the book

dripping in love, yearning, heartache and nostalgia, this is how we love is a coffee table-worthy anthology featuring love letters, notes, poetry and artworks shared between lesbians across the globe. inspired by the instagram collective founded and curated by the editor, @lesbianlovenote, each page invites readers to travel, daydream, feel inspired, safe, celebrated, and above all, at home. this book combines dreamlike visuals with earnest words of love to create a unique time capsule documenting a plethora of modern-day relationships, contributing a positive and necessary representation of authentic lesbian love and existence to today’s creative landscape.
nothing beats being the majority, and here, for once, we are the majority.
“this is how we love depicts love stories of real lesbians. it provides a safe space for young, frightened queer people to feel included and know that there are countless others out there like them who are happy and thriving.” - the herald
“daughtery is making waves with her tender, candid approaches to writing, archive and social justice advocation. this exciting editorial project is a perfect example of her creativity and insight.” - NEoN digital arts festival